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Kathleen Devanney. A human.'s avatar

Oh, Mary. In my wish today - How good can it get? - I truly hope your beautiful reflections here are widely amplified. (And not because you kindly included my recent stack - though thank you for that!)

As you so capably do, you've weaved many elements here masterfully.

Your encounter with a relative you love, who confidently claims a whole swat of the population in such ungenerous terms, is sadly, very relatable. On my little block in CT, specked with Harris signs, the houses of the occupants are friends of mine. I'll see several of them on Tuesday for book club, and I both look forward to that and carry a dread because I know I'll be listening to the same kind of confident - even certainty - about who the problem is in our country. In honesty, 15 or so years ago, I would have joined in.

I navigate those moments by reminding myself they are good people, whose minds are captured. POW's in a sense.

I will drop small, un-confrontational phrases, to dilute the field of anxiety and anger - "Well, the Trump supporters I know want the same things Harris supporters I know want." I'll reference the media's frenzy and note that I won't watch any of it. I'll be careful about how much wine I imbibe.

In my own way then I'll try to be a voice of sanity. My partner recently asked why I stay in the book club and it was an immediate answer. I love them. I feel sorry for them. And, I want to help.

I trust the numbers of us who see the script and how we are being played - pawns in someone else's story - is growing. I agree with Visceral Adventure too, that it won't matter who wins, not in the larger and more important ways.

And I loved this:

"Our job is to feed ourselves daily, with whatever nurtures and amps up the love and light at the core of our beings… and then pick up our collective pens. We really no longer need The Producers to provide a storyboard to conclude this bizarre reality show."

Thank you for your clear and wise voice here, Mary. More, please. :-)

xoxo

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Cindi's avatar

With respect, there is one side MUCH more inclined to “othering”, ostracization, cruelty & violence than the other. Generally speaking - & understanding there are both good & bad actors on both sides - during the scamdemic, it was the left much more likely to “other” & ostrasize their families, friends, neighbors, co-workers & total strangers who defied mask & jab mandates, social distancing & lockdown. Who questioned the idiocy of what was going on & cared deeply about loss of freedom & bodily autonomy, only to be mocked, shamed, called terrible names & a desire to exclude us from life & wished death upon us.

So too the same side that committed extreme violence over George Floyd as compared to J6 protesters, w/ the BLM riots & rioters described as “mostly peaceful protests” as looting, burning buildings & antifa thugs beat people up (or murdered them) in the background on the news. Ominously, social distancing in effect at that time was suspended but only for the thugs because raaaaaacism. Or something.

Egged on by the politicians & celebrities of that “side” & more specifically the current democrat presidential candidate was literally raising bail $$ for the criminals - none of whom have been punished, while J6 people who merely wandered the halls of the capitol building languish in deplorable conditions w/ out due process.

And under which administration has our border been thrown open to every criminal / gang / terrorist to overwhelm the populace, social services & culture?

Under which administration has this law been revived or modified to allow our military to turn their guns on their brother & sister citizens & on American soil, no less?

I can absolutely buy that - as Neil Oliver has said - the political parties are 2 cheeks of the same arse - & that in many ways it’s picking the lesser of 2 evils, neither of which seem to care very much about the citizenry or the country.

Except that this time - w/ the growing howls for censorship, the unhinged lawfare, “othering” (deplorables & worse), ostracization & violence from the left cheek, it truly feels like we really are in a final battle between good & evil & the outcome will affect the whole world.

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